I have decided to stop beating myself up for not moving out of the company.
I used to resent myself for being weak and not daring to venture out.
I have come to realise that if I am another person, I wont be so hard on him/her.
There are always reasons behind every decision.
For me, not moving out probably showed my lack of confidence in my abilities and my fears of failing.
It also showed that I needed a lot of security and stability.
So I may have lost opportunities by staying put, but I have definitely gained as well.